Wow. I didn't realize that sending you a text at 6:30 in the evening to let you know about an issue with one of your children was going to turn into you sending me 45 texts while I was trying to sleep between 1:00 and 2:30am. It really is all about money with you. Don't tell me you have money problems while you have a Lamborghini, a Maserati, a Ferrari, and a Denali. I could have petitioned the court for more child support and gotten it a long time ago. I didn't because what I get is enough. I don't drive a fancy car or live in a big house in a nice neighborhood, but I don't need to either. You chose to be with Jane (not real name) when we were married and you chose to marry her after our divorce. That was your decision, not mine. I don't have any problem with the morality clause in our divorce decree. My boyfriend parks in the driveway or in front of the house and he does not spend the night. He doesn't need to park down the street because we are not sneaking around like you did.
Thursday, January 26, 2012
Thursday, January 19, 2012
Christmas is over
Wow...it's January! Not just January but halfway through January. I had all these plans to blog about our Christmas (which was really good). And then Christmas came....and went. Then i was sick for 3 days....like in bed did not eat, did not do anything sick. Fortunately my boys went to their dad's at 3pm on Christmas day (I was actually back in bed by noon.) I didn't take any calls on Monday and so did not know that my aunt who has cancer had taken a turn for the worse. Got the call Tuesday that she had passed away. Finally dragged myself out of bed on Wednesday to take down the Christmas tree and take my van in for service. Thursday I headed to my parents so that I could ride with them to Florida for my aunt's memorial. We left Friday morning and the memorial was Saturday. She had struggled off and on with some form on cancer for 23 years. The latest was kidney cancer which had spread to her brain and eventually throughout her body. Through all this she developed an amazing positive attitude and "sparkle." My cousin introduced her to a song called "Swim" by Jack's mannequin and it became her lifesong over the past 2 years. She vowed to live life to the fullest and enjoy every moment she was given. She had positive sayings posted throughout her home and always had sparkles on her somewhere. For her memorial everyone was asked to wear something sparkly in her honor. Even many of the guys wore sparkle spray on their clothing. Afterwards she had wanted a party thrown in her honor and party we did! There was live music and face painting and balloons. The sun was shining and the weather was perfect.
Balloons (environmentally safe) released in Carol's honor.
Slideshow tribute
I don't make New Year's resolutions but the memorial inspired me to adopt a more positive attitude and it just happened to fall on New Year's Eve. I guess it's a good thing I don't make New Year's resolutions because I am struggling with this one. Things have been really rough since I got back and my boys got home but I will save that for another post. For now I am just trying to sparkle and swim....
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